Republican presidential hopeful John Kasich today told a female college student concerned about "sexual violence, harassment and rape" that she should not "go to parties where there's a lot of alcohol."That's good advice for the boys too. That doesn't mean never drink alcohol or never go to parties where alcohol is served, it just means don't go to parties where alcohol is the main focus.
It's not victim blaming. If you go to a party where the goal is to get as blitzed as possible, you are going to be hanging out with immature people. If you want to be treated with respect, immature drunks are not your best bet for company.